International Journal of Prevention and Treatment
2012; 1(2): 31-39
doi: 10.5923/j.ijpt.20120102.03
Dinah W. Tumuti 1, 2, Anthony M. Ireri 3, Joshua W. Tumuti 4
1Department of Design & Marketing, Kenyatta University, P.O. Box 43844, 00100, Nairobi, Kenya
2Directorate of Community Outreach and Extension Programmes, Kenyatta University, P.O. Box 43844, 00100,Nairobi, Kenya
3Department of Educational Psychology, Kenyatta University, P.O. Box 43844, 00100,Nairobi, Kenya
4Department of Business Administration, Kenyatta University, P.O. Box 43844, 00100,Nairobi, Kenya
Correspondence to: Dinah W. Tumuti , Department of Design & Marketing, Kenyatta University, P.O. Box 43844, 00100, Nairobi, Kenya.
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Existing professional services for young people especially in developing countries need to be informed by the local situation for them to be effective. The study aimed at identifying sources of relationship guidance, young people’s fears and reasons for marriage. 65 young Christians in Nairobi with an average age of 25.23 (sd.4.38) completed a self-report questionnaire. Results indicate that the participants relied mainly on friends for relationship guidance. Social emotional benefits, especially companionship, were the major motivation for young people to marry. Infidelity and divorce were the main sources of fear of marriage. Suggestions for research and practice are given.
Keywords: Relationship Guidance, Fears and Reasons for Marriage, Young Urban Christians
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